It is 2.22 in the morning and I can’t sleep. I was watching an episode of 90210 (which I absolutely love btw) and in this series one of the main characters (Teddy) decides that he no longer wants to be in ‘no strings attached’ relationships. Now for some one like me who has never really been in that kind of open relationship, it is a completely alien concept. Don’t get me wrong, I understand that when you go on the first couple of dates nothing is guaranteed but why would you intentionally enter into something knowing that it is going nowhere?? I do not understand why you would meet somebody and on the same day have sex with them, sleep in their house, and expose yourself to all manner of diseases for a couple minutes thrill, and a good story to share with your mates.
To all encounters there are strings attached especially for us women – emotional. Whether it is you suddenly or gradually viewing yourself differently because of these conquests, you will. I’m not saying this is a case of other people judging you – your conscience is more than able to do that.
Many women have such bad attitudes towards men – tell me this isn’t evidence of strings.